Sugarmama!!!!!!!!!

Okay, grown folks…

We all know too well about older men wanting to be with younger women, whether it’s because they want to feel young themselves, need to be praised constantly, or don’t want to appear as if they have “fallen off”. BUT…

We’ve been experiencing a fairly new phase in our culture where older women are now loving younger men, and sometimes it's expressed in fairly derogatory terms (cougar, MILF)…it’s nothing out of the ordinary, just more prevalent nowadays. In our opinion, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it! I have a female friend who says that younger men are more chivalrous, listen to women more, and are extremely more talented and attentive in bed (don’t know about that one, lol!). But it’s true, you do see it more, and it doesn’t seem to be just a phase. Some studies have shown that older men don’t care as much about pleasing their women as much as they used to. Sometimes it’s the stress of holding down 1 or more jobs and having to support the family financially and being burned out. That isn’t surprising, as we are in a recession, and men who have to support families are extremely stressed about that and not as worried about what could be considered minor difficulties in a relationship. Sometimes it is due to a lack of communication. Maybe it’s just that they get too damn comfortable. But what about when the women are holding it down for the family? There’s never an excuse for not loving your significant other in the right way. I also spoke with another friend, who is male, and he says that he loves dating older women. According to him, they keep themselves up in a way that younger women don’t, they tend to be more financially stable, and they are sexier. And these young men aren’t looking to be taken care of, they usually have their own money and actually enjoy taking out and being seen with a mature woman.

So now you see the grand entrance of the younger man…less stressed, well-mannered, well-groomed, and more appealing in a lot of ways to a lot of women…either way, OLDER WOMEN HAVE IT GOING ON!!!! Just ‘cause you’re twice as old don’t mean you’re half as fly (Can anyone say Halle Berry)!!! Okay, all you real hip-hop heads know where that came from, I can’t front like I made that up!

Tiny and Toya…why? Haven’t we embarrassed ourselves enough? Everyone can get a reality show these days and they are living proof. We need more reality shows that actually HELP us without making us look like desperate ex-housewives. The only thing I would bet on concerning this show is that Tiny won't ever be able to conceal that GHETTO tattoo on her breast by the looks of the clothes she insists on wearing...I haven’t watched one single episode, but do I really have to in order to know what is going on? If someone can enlighten us, email us at professionalswagga@gmail.com, we would love to hear about it.

I know everyone is tired of talking about Michael Jackson’s death and conspiracy theories concerning it, but watching the 20/20 special about the Jackson family last night, I can see why Michael wanted he and his kids to be as far away from JOSEPH as possible. He’s way too conniving, money-hungry, controlling, and egotistical. Partying to 50 Cent in Vegas with women ¼ his age? Okay, whatever, and WTF?

P.S. Preferred Spots

Wednesday

Pop Life @ Apostrophe Lounge, 1440 S. Tryon Street, doors open at 6p, party until 2a, drink specials and free all night….this one is a keeper, the DJ is always on top of his game and it stays packed. Highly recommended for the constant and casual partygoer.

Thursday

RSVP Thursdays @ Décor 1202, 1202 Charlottetown Rd., doors open at 9p, free all night with RSVP or flyer, drink specials all night…this is the old Vault and Eden for those who’ve been in Charlotte for a while…it’s been remodeled. Nice on the inside, crowd usually isn’t that thick…Nice night out for a couple or if you and your girls/guys just want to hang out.

Friday

Phrozen Hour/Afterparty: Summer Edition II

Part 1 @ 145 Brevard Court, 5p-9p, free drinks and hors d’oeurves WHILE THEY LAST

Part 2 @ 222 Church Street 10p-2a, free all night….haven’t actually been to this but will attend this weekend…sounds like a LOT of fun, see you there!

Saturday

Day Dreams Part Deux @ The Forum, 300 N. College Street, for ticket info go to http://www.thesolkitchen.com/, $10 in advance…people, the day parties are not to be slept on….and this entertainment group really knows how to throw a headbanger! Get your tickets early or just hang out and party in the alley behind the club, get a hot dog or something, you know the old Mythos for us who remember, lolol!